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Of het nu gaat om collega\u2019s, vrienden, familie of jouw levenspartner… het is goed om te weten op welke punten jullie het met elkaar (on)eens zijn. Een manier om dit te doen is door vragen te stellen aan jezelf en de ander. Hieronder volgt een boektip, waarin ook verwijzingen naar onderzoeksdata zijn opgenomen, voor het voeren van luchtige maar leerzame conversaties.<\/p>\n\n\n

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In deze ongekende tijden is reflectie op jezelf en de mensen om jou heen wellicht van grotere waarde dan ooit. Hoewel studies laten zien dat gelijkenissen of complementariteit in persoonlijkheden niet bepalend hoeven te zijn voor een succesvolle relatie (Eysenck & Wakefield, 1981; Groves, 2016; Rosowsky et al., 2012), is het fijn om persoonlijkheden in harmonie met elkaar te houden.<\/p>\n

Als \u2018headhunter\/recruiter\u2019 breng ik mensen bij elkaar en ben ik actief bezig met wie bij welke groep personen past. Als promovenda in Gender Studies breng ik idee\u00ebn bij elkaar om uiteindelijk een proefschrift in te leveren aan mijn universiteit in Londen. Alleen wilde ik niet wachten totdat ik de doctorstitel heb behaald om actief inzichten te delen over de onderlinge relatie tussen personen. Dit bracht mij ertoe stellingen over man\/vrouw-kwesties \u2013 gebaseerd op onderzoeksdata \u2013 te bundelen en in boekvorm te gieten. Inderdaad, de hierboven genoemde boektip is dus een schaamteloze plug naar mijn \u2018Talk Data to Me\u2019-boek, maar als hiermee zelfs maar \u00e9\u00e9n stelling zorgt voor meer inzicht, begrip en kennis tussen jou en jouw intieme (gezien de aanwezigheid van seksuele stellingen in het boek) gesprekspartner, dan is deze plug de moeite waard.<\/p>\n

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In de geest van dit boek verzorg ik \u2018Battle of the Sexes\u2019-quizzen voor groepen, waarbij de stellingen gebaseerd zijn op onderzoeksdata en geschikt om met niet-intieme personen, zoals collega\u2019s, te behandelen. Zo was ik laatst uitgenodigd voor een online netwerkbijeenkomst, waarbij de aanwezigen wedijverden om de meeste juiste antwoorden op mijn ja\/nee-stellingen. De winnaars waren degenen die, ondanks de beperkingen om fysiek in dezelfde ruimte te zijn, via videoverbinding en de livechat t\u00f3ch een band met elkaar wisten te maken. Als (de geest van) mijn boek voor deze niet-intieme personen een middel kon zijn om online verbondenheid te vinden, dan wens ik jou toe dat de \u2018hardcopy\u2019 van het boek offline grote vonken doen overslaan tussen jou en de persoon die (mogelijk) bij jou past.<\/p>\n

Alvast veel plezier!<\/p>\n

Bron: ACADEMY Magazine 2020-2021<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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